
Dear Dr. Julie-Ann,
I was meeting my girlfriends for lunch the other day and as I was getting out my car, my skirt rode up a bit to reveal my slip. My friends good-naturedly teased me about the fact that no one wears slips anymore unless it is shapewear under a form-fitting dress.
I was taught that I should always wear slips but now I’m wondering if my friends are right. After all, it is getting harder and harder to find pretty slips. Is it time to ditch the slips?
Sincerely,
S.L. Ping
Dear S.L. Ping,
I understand. I’ve been “slip shamed,” too, for being a slip wearer. But, actually, both you and your friends are correct. It seems like no one wears slips anymore even though they should if they are wearing a dress or skirt. There are many beautiful reasons why you should wear a slip but I’ll highlight three of them.
Wearing a Slip Helps Clothes Hang Better
Have you ever been walking behind a woman wearing a knit dress and noticed that her dress was caught in her backside? That is because of the friction between her body and the dress. The fabric was unable to move freely and ended up in the path of least resistance with no way out. So to speak.
A more common occurrence is when a straight skirt or fitted blouse begins to ride or bunch up. Again, the fabric was unable to move freely and had trouble getting back where it belonged. This happens a lot when you’re wearing pantyhose–especially “every day” pantyhose that isn’t as smooth as the more expensive brands.
A slip enables your garment to move over your curves and angles to create a more flattering line than you have without wearing one.Wearing a Slip Helps Your Clothes Last Longer
Did you know your clothes can get stressed out? In many ways, the phrase “wear and tear” can be a literal description of what happens every time you wear a garment. If you aren’t wearing a slip, the friction can put stress on the fabric causing abrasion (abrasion is the cause of the pilling on your favorite cashmere sweater). If your garment is fitted anywhere, your movement puts stress on the seams and they may pop because the thread holding it together breaks. As mentioned before, wearing a slip prevents most of that friction so that your clothes don’t start to hide in your closet out of fear of being chosen as the outfit of the day.
Your body oils, moisturizer, perfume, perspiration, and skin bits (yes, I know it is gross to think about!) get absorbed by the fabric causing it to smell a bit funky. And, you know that you can’t feel confident and poised when you know your clothes are past the cleaning due date. The good news is that a slip is your first line of defense against that funkiness because it “takes one for the team” which means you can go a bit longer before laundering your garment. And the longer you can go between having to launder your garment, the longer it will last because the fabric and color lose just a bit more of themselves each time your garment is cleaned (all that lint in your dryer is fabric bits that couldn’t hold onto the garment any longer).
I have read a lot of comments in the interwebs that you don’t need to wear a slip if the garment is already lined. While that is technically true, I still prefer to wear slips under every dress or skirt. Otherwise, I’d need to launder the garment more frequently because when the lining is soiled, the whole garment must be cleaned.
As an aside, an old-fashioned strategy to counteract underarm embarrassment is making a comeback. In the days before fast/throwaway fashion, dress shields were commonly used to protect garments from perspiration. In fact, Claire Shaeffer describes how to make dress shields in her book Couture Sewing Techniques* because they are considered so important for a poised look. Amazon.com offers a whole bunch of different disposable dress shield versions that you stick onto your garment. I’ve also heard that you can use certain brands of pantiliners in a pinch.
Wearing a Slip Helps Prevent Wardrobe Malfunction
In the iconic scene from The Seven Year Itch, Marilyn Monroe’s white dress billows up around her as she stands atop a subway vent. Legend has it that her then husband, Joe DiMaggio, was so disgusted how “exhibitionist” the scene was that he stormed off the set. She filed for divorce a short time later.
I can’t help but wonder if they could have lived happily ever after if she was only wearing a slip so that the two pairs of white panties she wore for modesty wouldn’t show. Alas, we’ll never know.
In an age when starlets are wearing sheer clothing both on the red carpet and while running errands, I sometimes feel like a lone voice in advocating for a bit of old-fashioned modesty. I’m not talking Amish level of modesty but simply wearing a slip so that your underthings don’t show through your clothes or that the outline of your body is seen when the sun shines and makes your dress virtually transparent.
Bonus Reason: The Glamour Factor
Admit it. There is just something glamorous about women in slips–especially Elizabeth Taylor in Tennessee Williams’ Cat on a Hot Tin Roof–in movies from Hollywood’s golden era. I certainly can’t be the only one who feels a bit more confident (if not a bit Grace Kelly sassier) when I know I’m wearing a beautiful slip underneath my clothes.
Wearing a beautiful slip also reminds me to stand a bit straighter when I want to slouch and be a bit more gracious when I want to punch someone in the nose (figuratively speaking).
Where to Find a Slip
Many women ask me where they can find a slip. It isn’t like stores carry them like they used to. Well, I found some “old school department store” options for you on Amazon. And, if you just need a cami, I’ve got you covered in that department, too.
If you are looking for “old school department store” like what our grandmothers probably wore, Amazon.com offers a variety of slips, including some from classic manufacturers like Vanity Fair and Vassarette.
Wearing a camisole provides the same benefits under your blouses as wearing a slip under a dress does. Here is a luxurious cami from Julianna Rae.
Your Turn
What are your experiences with slips? Where do you find pretty slips?
Until next time, have a fabulous Technicolor day!
DrJulieAnn
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I actually wear a slip under all of my dresses, suits, blouses and skirts. . . Basically, if I am wearing vintage, then I am wearing a slip for all the reasons you listed above. A good slip really does help improve the look of the clothes you are wearing for all to see.
I have made many of my own slips from a good china silk and a vintage pattern and I have also purchased some. My best ones are my vintage ones. . . . I have found them from all sorts of places. Normally I don’t wear modern slips because I don’t like the way they look or feel (personal preference ) so I always try to invest in good vintage ones when I can. That and the vintage ones have such beautiful detailing.
I used to wear slips all the time, but then they got so hard to find. But you’re right. I’m going to hop online and get a slip or two.
I love slips, especially vintage ones and they literally save my vintage dresses and make them look prettier, as you also mention. I was lucky to get a lot from my mom, but I do still find some nice ones in charity shops for a song. Have a nice weekend. 🙂
I wear slips whenever I wear a dress or skirt. It’s such a habit that I don’t feel comfortable without one. I’m hoarding a couple of old slips with lavish lace, but I’m finding it hard to find slips that are not just cheesy tubes of fabric with minimal trim. There are precious few of those, as fewer people are wearing slips as you pointed out. I’d love to find out if anyone is finding pretty ones.
Could today’s starlets even wear a slip? Their outer clothing is so skimpy there isn’t room for a slip underneath.
Maybe this is a stupid question, but do you also wear a bra under a full slip? Pictures show only one set of straps, so I assume no bra?
The pictures are just streamlined. I have always worn a bra with my slips. My bust line would be around my hips if I didn’t.
I’m so glad to see you’ve written another post!!! I’ve been missing this community!!
Yes, i wear a slip with skirts and dresses. I feel they make my garments fit better.
I love wearing slips. I need to make my own since they seem to be impossible to buy.
But they do make me feel well dressed and finished… even in my uniform
Yes to slips! Always! I have a collection of more than 50 vintage slips (mostly half slips) and wear them as often as possible. If anyone has questions about finding/buying beautiful vintage slips, feel free to email me s54p at aol. Love this column, thanks for posting!
Slips are amazing. As a guy, I am a huge fan of them. I love half and full slips. I have been attracted to them since I was a young boy. Something about seeing a slip worn by a lady is wonderful. I love the silky feel of them on or off of my wife.
Dillards sell a Cabernet slip they is buttery soft.
I love wearing slips! I didn’t know you wore slips with blouses, but it makes complete sense. Definitely will be doing that 🙂
One of my proudest moments with my cute husband was he was watching a movie and the actress wasn’t wearing a slip with her dress and it really showed. He looked at me and said “She needs a slip!”
We’re in our twenties and I couldn’t be prouder 😂
I think nothing is more
beautiful, fashionable,
feminine looking,
romantic, sensual,
and sexy about a
woman wearing a gorgeous
silky nylon and lace trim full
or half slip?
Shouldn’t women return to wearing
silky slips again?
I love slips. They are super hard to find. What fabrics do recommend? I don’t like the couple I have tried because one was so cheap it was cut weird and didn’t fit right and the other was a cheap synthetic that had tons of static in it. That was so annoying.
I think slips are the most attractive and seductive garment a woman can wear. It is unfortunate they are not as popular as they once were. Today’s clothing is so poorly made and there is much less emphasis on women looking feminine.
I have loved slip since i was kid. They are so pretty love when they showed in public too.
I have purchased many half slips on Etsy and Ebay. You can find some nice vintage slips in unworn or very good condition if you look.