Born Too Late
I have always felt that I was born during the wrong time period. While my friends were listening to disco, I was listening to KRLA. Hanging out the mall and being a Valley Girl bored me but I enjoyed cooking, sewing, reading historical novels and biographies, watching old movies, and hanging out with my grandmother.
It was during my formative years that homemaking was pushed off its perch as a noble profession. “They” told us that smart girls should aspire to “be something.” So I decided that I would be a Home Economics teacher. But Home Ec programs were considered unnecessary and were being shut down. I became an elementary school teacher instead and put all of the child development classes I had taken to good use.
Career Change: Living Like My Grandmother Lois
After 25+ years as a special education teacher, an educational psychology professor–teaching education students how to be school teachers, and a university administrator–teaching professors and graduate students how to be college teachers, I made a career change: Living like my grandmother Lois (1908-1979) in a modern world (with a little bit of June Cleaver, Audrey Hepburn, and Grace Kelly thrown in, too, for good measure). I think both of my grandmothers epitomize a forgotten group of mid-century homemakers–women who had careers outside of the home but always considered homemaking their priority.
From 8:00 to 4:30, Monday through Friday, I am an administrator at a state university in the Midwest. I love my job! But since making the shift to living like Grandma Lois (Grandmother Lillian died when I was quite young so I only have a few memories of her), homemaking is my refuge, not something I look at as drudgery (okay, scrubbing the toilets isn’t exactly high on my enjoyment list but I think you get the gist of what I’m saying). I find tremendous satisfaction in being a modern retro woman!
Live, Grow, Thrive, as a Modern Retro Woman, too!
This blog is devoted to sharing my studies and adventures in trying to be the proverbial “perfect 1950s housewife” by living like my grandmother in the 21st century. I believe that if I strive to live by the same old fashioned values that my grandmother lived by, I will live a fabulous life! I want the same for you, too.
Factoids:
- The Mister and I are college sweethearts. We started dating in October, 1980 and had a Christmas wedding in 1986.
- Unfortunately, we were unable to have children.
- I collect vintage cookbooks (pre-1965)
- My Ph.D. is in Educational Psychology which is the study of how people learn
- I also have a Custom Clothing certificate
- My collection of vintage sewing patterns and books is bigger than my cookbook collection
- My favorite kind of music is Christmas sung by the mid-20th-century crooners
- I bought my first vintage how-to-be-a-housekeeper book shortly after The Mister and I married and I realized I didn’t know anything about keeping a home!
- I love trying to be the perfect 1950s housewife!
- I am grateful for the Modern Retro Woman readers for the encouragement given to me and each other to follow our retro-lifestyle bliss
- You can stay in touch with the community by using the “Follow Me” buttons on the right side of the page
Giving Credit Where Credit Is Due Department: I want to thank Retro Renovation for the header image. Retro Renovation is a fabulous blog and resource that continually inspires me. I know it will inspire you, too!







I’m also trying to live like a retro housewife in a modern, “stay at home mom” world. I’m only 36, but I’m deeply connected with the figure of a 1950′s housewife. It’s good to know there are others like me in the world.
Dr. Julie-Ann:
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. It is such a blessing when someone takes their time to bring comfort.
Bless you!
Roxanne
Twitter: GoRetroPam
Hey Dr. Julie-Ann,
Just wanted to say thank you for visiting my blog recently and for your nice comments. You have a swell blog yourself and I’m going to add it to my blog roll.
Pam
What a great blog! I’ve been doing this since I was 19. Yes, hold the eye roll.
I got married right out of high school, we just celebrated our 10th, and have three kids (9, 4 an 1). It’s sometimes hard or weird to be living like a 1950s housewife in 2010 in the middle of a big city but I love it and I’m so glad I found this blog. <3
What a delight to find your blog this afternoon. I am out on the deck playing around on a new lap top and went to itunes podcast and that is how I found you! I am one of those antique home economics teachers, and had 8 glorious years teaching before I started my family. I still have students who find me online and it is always great fun. I keep telling them they are always teens in my mind, then I see pictures of them with walking their daughters down the isle and I know time has passed too quickly.
I became a home economics teacher due to having a career mom, who was nothing close to a domestic goddess! I needed and wanted to learn, and the only way was to get formally educated in the “art” up through my Masters. I am amazed today at all the 30 something moms who feel they were cheated by not having home economics offered to them in high school! There must be a lesson in this, somewhere.
You keep your very fun blog up better than I do . . . you are an inspiration!
I could have written your ‘about me’, or at least parts of it! I have been told that I am an Old Soul for as long as I can remember. I love the 50′s but sometimes I wonder if I didn’t belong even one hundred years before that. It’s hard to find people that are supportive of doing things ‘old school’. My friends and family think I’m crazy for quitting my job and trying to live as a one income family. And they definitely don’t have the patience for baking bread, canning or cooking from scratch!!
So enjoyed your MRW site. I can remember my mother-in-law teaching me how to can peaches, pears and make applesauce. I must confess I enjoyed preserving those fruits in the freezer instead of doing the canning in the Aug. heat (this was before air conditioning). But everything did taste better than that purchased at the store.
I just found your site and I’m so excited about it…however, I’m wondering why many of the links don’t go anywhere? Are you still in business here? Sure hope so!!